The ferris wheel is the thing I most look forward to at the fair, but apparently it's not his favorite thing. This was one of the last rides of a very long afternoon at the Allentown Fair and as we took our second turn, he sort of enjoyed it, though still clutched at her shirt with all his might. I would have kept him next to me, except my three year old was even less pleased than he to be spinning 'round and 'round....and 'round.
You can't win them all and when it's you, three kids and a sheet of unused ride tickets, you make do, you make them cry and somehow you find some way to make it work. And failing that, there's always the chance to make up for it with cotton candy. The boy was smitten with his fistfuls of fluff and hearing him plead, "mo sugar, mama, mo sugar!"--well, it really doesn't get better than that.
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More than any other year to year set of comparisons, somehow the ones in photographs and in memory from this fair are that really hit home for me. My five year old doesn't need me to lift her onto the carousel horses any more; she's tall enough. My "baby" is big enough to ride every ride with her. My three year old's most ecstatic moment is still the pony ride--we had a full year of being regaled by Peanut stories; this year ahead it will be Casper.
Somehow I never realized what an expense it was growing up to go to these fairs, to spend the day blissed out on fried dough, ice cream cones and rickety metal rides without a care in the world. Keeping three kids in the funnel cake and lemonade is quite a chunk of change. It's not the fair of my youth, but it's the one of theirs and if I have to pick and choose my indulgent moments, well this day each year will forever be in the heck yeah it's worth it category. Right down to the cotton candy.